How To Deal With Sex, Money & Entrepreneurship | Cigars With MoneySmartGuy

In this year’s event of Train- the-Trainers hosted by PHP Agency, I was asked by one of the participants about how to plan for long term success, how to deal with sex, money, and entrepreneurship? 

So Today, I’d like to shed some light on how one can get that long term success? There’s no denying that everyone wants that lasting success in life – the kind of success that sets the foundation for one’s life’s legacy. But have you ever wondered what it takes to get there? – the prices of success. Are you willing to pay?


We can’t avoid the fact that to be a company guy you have to keep your head down eyes up. You need to keep going forward no matter what life throws at you. Even if you’ve got the right attitude and you are a big voice in your current company you still have to nose grindstone for 18 to 36 months.

If you focus heavily on your work no one can keep success away from you. Like in my earlier days when I met Sheila; the day when we came on board for the first time and we negotiate with one another. I told her that I’m not where I want to be – I want to be close to 1B but stick with me because it’s just a matter of time.

All the successful individuals had put in enough productive work before they received success in return. So work hard in a more productive way and respect the work itself.       

Stick With Your Decisions – Build Credibility

The fastest way to build credibility is to stick with your decisions and see it through to an outcome. To get that long-term success in your career or entrepreneurship you’ve to cultivate credibility. The people will only be willing to do business with you if you’re trustworthy and are a reliable resource.    

Clarity – Be Clear What You Want

Another thing that’s vital in getting an overall kick in your career is the clarity of your goals. It is much deeper and more important to be clear in your thinking about what you’d like to achieve. With vague daydreaming, you would be wasting much of your precious time. Once your goals are set you have to ask yourself why you want to get there – like why you want to be a voice in your company.

Commitment To Become A Better Person

You’ve got to transform your habits in a way to become a better person overall. You have spiritual life, personal life, and financial life. You might have people in these three categories that are pulling you up in every category and it’s weird sometimes to have a mentor that addresses more than one area.

If your body is fit and your mind is clear about yourself – you’re a better person. You might be underweight or overweight but the thing that matters is how do you feel about yourself – that’s a big issue.


The next important issue to focus on while you’re starting to make money is sex. Especially when guys make some money they feel a little more confident and a little apart. Guys treat money differently than women. Many guys start getting my name on stupid shirts why? Because it gives them a sense of power and control. What women do when they start getting a lot of money? They save, financial security.